[Fearless Leader]

If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?

[jr2]

Dating her is your choice, right?  Is she not pro-choice? 

(I'm pro-life, and I think homosexuality is a sin, but I'm trying to make a point here.)

[Fearless Leader]

I know, also I didnt understand the last half.

But I didnt know I could be homophobic towards the opposite sex.. would that not be more like hetrophobia?

[jr2]

I know, also I didnt understand the last half.

But I didnt know I could be homophobic towards the opposite sex.. would that not be more like hetrophobia?

  Yes, you are homophobic or hetrophobic 'cause you are just terrified of them.  *snort* 

[Prophet]

You don't want to date a Bi chick? What the hell is the matter of you?!? Think of all the threesomes! Those wonderful moments you just happen to interrup her and her friends pillowfight aftermaths. Don't you use your dick for thinking, like, at all???


Althought the dowside is that if you wish a serious relationship, you'd have to compete with women. And a man versus woman for the attention of another woman... Well it's Kobayashi Maru all over...

[Fearless Leader]

look man, this is a serious issue for me, I wouldnt date a Bi chick because 1) I couldnt trust her and 2) I would always want a 3 way and I would never do that because Im not willing to share my signifigant other with another person

so, am I afraid of gays / bi chicks?
I dont know, but it is a new issue for me

[Jeff Vader]

I wouldnt date a Bi chick because 1) I couldnt trust her

I think that is the key in this issue. I guess it's harder to trust bi chicks. With straight chicks your only concern is that they might take an interest on some other man. But bi chicks could fall for either a man or a woman. The risk of losing her is therefore quite larger compared to a straight chick.

Or then you are a homophobe or equivalent.

[Darius]

So Bi chicks are innately promiscuous and cannot be trusted? Where does it say a bisexual cannot set their heart on one person, especially if it's a serious relationship?

That's what I'm reading from your "I couldn't trust her" comment.

[Mefustae]

And a man versus woman for the attention of another woman... Well it's Kobayashi Maru all over...

Now that i've picked myself off the floor, i'd just like to point out this is the single greatest obscure reference ever on HLP. Truly, I am in awe of the awesomeness of this post. You have much to teach us, Prophet.

Fearless Leader, it's a choice of preference. Some guys don't like redheads, so they choose not to date them. Some guys don't like fat women, so they don't date them. We all have our own particular 'types' that we're drawn to, and inversely we also have certain 'types' that were just aren't into. If you don't dig a bisexual girl because she's bisexual, then more power to you. If you're fussed over something like that, then it probably wouldn't have lasted too long anyways.

When you get right down to it, you're not homophobic if you don't like her because she's bisexual. Honestly, if I were looking for a long-term thing, i'd be a bit wary myself. Anyway, so what if you're a homophobe? What business is it of anyone but yours? I'll disagree, but it's your opinion after all.

Oh, and Jr2, what the **** you on about mate?

Edit: Also, could we try to combat the hideous stereotype of forum geeks by not using 'chick' so much? Just a small request, eh? It's ****ing juvenile, people.

[karajorma]

If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?

No. It makes you an idiot.


Seriously though whether a girl is bi or not shouldn't affect whether you trust her or not. Suppose you go out with a 100% hetrosexual woman. She's still going to be attracted to other men. If she is the kind of girl who wants to cheat on you there's plenty of willing dick around.

If a girl is bi it simply doubles the number of people she could potentially cheat on you with. It doesn't automatically make her less trustworthy.

Think of it this way. You might be attracted to both redheads and blondes but that doesn't mean you need one of each. I assume that if your girl is blonde she can still trust you not to need to **** a redhead from time to time?

So don't fixate on the bi, the important thing is whether she's monogamous or not.

[Rictor]

No. It makes you an idiot.

Exactly what I was going to say. Seriously, why are we having this conversation - go out there and try do what the rest of us can only dream of.

...unless she's ugly.

Edit: Also, could we try to combat the hideous stereotype of forum geeks by not using 'chick' so much? Just a small request, eh? It's ****ing juvenile, people.

No dice, old man. I'm perfectly fine with them calling us "guys" - it's just part of the lingo nowadays.

[achtung]

Step 1:  Get Bi chick

Step 2:  ??????

Step 3some!

Really though, if she's the one accusing you of being a homophobe, I don't see the relationship working out that well even if you didn't care about her being bi.

Oh, and no.  Unless you have some deep-rooted fear/hate for homosexuals, then I don't think you would be considered a homophobe.

[Unknown Target]

If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?

It makes you a close minded idiot Seriously, I'm kind of annoyed with all of the comments in this thread that immediately assume bi chicks are more promiscuous and/or willing to have a three some. They're people too you know (I imagine that a large portion of this people in this thread would have trouble believing women are really people just like them), and just because they have different sexual tastes  than you doesn't mean they immediately want to have tons of sex with as many people as they can.


I say this from experience, as well. Bi chicks are a ton of fun (not just sexually) - you can talk to them about how hot other girls are and they'll talk back, and generally I've found them to be much more chill over all.


And no, you're not a homophobe

[Janos]

If I dont date a chick because she is Bi then does that make me a homophobe?

if you don't date a chick you're gay

you must cure her from her bi-illness with your mighty cock

[Flipside]

Don't cure it! Join in!

Damn.....

[Inquisitor]

And we wonder why no lady-folk frequent the forum...

[TrashMan]

Close-minded?

There are no such things as fobias. Homofobia, archanophobia, whateverfobias..they don't exit. Neither does antisemitism. It's all a government conspiracy I tell you! They're at it with the aliens and scientologists! - THE TRUTH IS OUT THERE!

[Unknown Target]

And we wonder why no lady-folk frequent the forum...

Indeed.

[Flipside]

I think the 'revelation' that men make snappy, sexist replies to questions like this would be pretty low on the list of concerns to be honest, that's been the job of our sex since the dawn of time.

Sharon's more of the opinion that it's the fact that, we are a bunch of computer gamers and this is a site for a 7-year old video game. Like going into Games Workshop, women are there, but rare, and often lost behind a crowd of preening males.

[G0atmaster]

For all those who don't understand what JR2 was talking about, Gah, I just don't even wanna try tackling that one...


Here's language you can understand:  If I were dating this person, and she became interested in another man, I could out-man the man.  If she became interested in another woman, well... I'm NOT gonna go there!

Next, what part of "I don't want an open relationship" don't you understand?  Here my friends, is something that's becoming a rarity these days: Someone who's more interested in a serious relationship than just sex.

He doesn't want an open relationship and you call him an idiot for it.  I commend him.  "Old fashioned" you say? "Not very forward-thinking?"  What good is moving forward down the wrong path?